05.19.12 GPS for Families
Say: God has given all of us the Holy Spirit to guide us. While this is abstract for children and often difficult to explain, we can help them begin to discern the “voice” of the Holy Spirit. God can use His spirit and internal prompters to guide us in what’s right and wrong. Children have these same prompters, but many parents miss the opportunity to help kids recognize them. Instead, parents emphasize their own guidance and prompting. If we want children to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit, we have to teach them to listen for it. Instead of telling a child to clean their room, you might say, “Please go look in your room to see if you can find anything out of place.” Or try this, “You are about to leave the table, forgetting anything?” These open-ended questions lead them to use their own internal guidance and make choices based on that information. Yes, you will have to help them find that guidance with small prompts and hints, but they can do it if you continue to offer them opportunities to look and listen to their internal dialogue. Warning: this process will be more frustrating for parents than children in the beginning. But in the long run, when we raise the awareness of their built-in guidance, it helps them find confidence in their internal instincts and the voice of the Holy Spirit.
Weekly Prayer
Holy Spirit, help me this day to cultivate an awareness of your work in my heart. I know that your presence in my life represents the same power at work in me that raised Jesus from the dead. Bring your power to bear on my life as I seek to honor you with my every thought, word and deed today and every day. I offer this prayer in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. AMEN.